Who to be blame...

You know those sections in the paper that people write in to tell stories about their sad unwanted life or problems to get advice from some dude (supposed to be da-pro) they don't even know. Anyway, I read one gd story.

Its about this lady who has married to a guy for 27 (yes twenty seven)years whom she called "Evil and Stingy". The guy never contribute into the family, even spending the family's money. He promised so much but never kept it. And a lot more bad things I can't really remember. I mean in "normal" relationship, she'll probably left the guy years ago. But why she stays? Is it because of the children? family pressures? Not wanting to let go? Love? Why can't she say something. Has she done everything possible to change him?

Whose fault is it? Taking it simple we'll probably would say that it is the guy that should be blamed. But is it the whole truth? In relationship is it always 1 person fault?

Thousands questions can be made, and thousands answers can be told. You'll get so confius even the logic seems to be in-logical. So... What is it? Can we simplified this (I read somewhere that human brain are made to simplified stuff).

The answer probably no. There's no way we can truly understand and comprehen wat exactly happen and who is to be blame. Only god knows.

I have my relationship problems. Been there, done that, felt those,.. Happy, on the cloud nine, dreamland, sad, anger, confius, betrayed and lots more. At the end I said, for whatever it is, after all those effort in keeping the relationship, making it happen (and if it works be happy man), accept your fate. Thats all, accept it. As if it was that easy....